Are You Ready forMarriage?

Discover your marriage readiness through a virtue-based assessment rooted in Catholic wisdom

Take our 8-question assessment to get personalized insights into your strengths and areas for growth on your journey toward a holy marriage.

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The Marriage Readiness Dilemma

Young Catholic adults face unique challenges when discerning their readiness for the vocation of marriage.

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Unclear Standards

Modern dating culture offers conflicting advice about what makes someone ready for marriage.

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Lack of Self-Awareness

Many young adults struggle to objectively assess their own strengths and weaknesses.

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Missing Framework

Without a virtue-based lens, it's hard to know which areas of personal growth matter most.

"How do I know if I'm truly ready for marriage? What areas of my character need growth before I can be a good spouse?"

— A question many young Catholics are asking

Meet the AdamEve Matrix

A virtue-based marriage readiness assessment designed specifically for Catholic young adults seeking clarity on their journey toward holy matrimony.

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Virtue-Based Framework

Rooted in the Four Cardinal Virtues: Prudence, Justice, Fortitude, and Temperance.

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8 Key Questions

Gender-specific questions covering faith, communication, selflessness, and more.

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Personalized Insights

Get a detailed radar chart showing your strengths across 8 virtue dimensions.

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Growth Priorities

Receive your top 3 areas for growth with actionable steps for improvement.

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Instant Results

Complete the assessment in 5 minutes and receive immediate feedback.

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Email Results

Get your complete assessment sent to your email for reflection and sharing.

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Two Ways to Use the Assessment

Whether you're working on yourself or evaluating a potential spouse, the AdamEve Matrix provides the insights you need.

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Self-Assessment

Evaluate Your Own Readiness

Take an honest look at your own virtues, strengths, and areas for growth. Understand where you stand on your journey toward marriage.

Key Benefits:

Identify your strongest virtues
Discover areas for personal growth
Get actionable steps for improvement
Build confidence in your journey
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Partner Assessment

Assess Someone You're Dating

Evaluate the marriage readiness of someone you're in a relationship with. Gain clarity on their virtues and potential as a spouse.

Key Benefits:

Assess their virtue development
Identify compatibility factors
Make informed discernment decisions
Have meaningful conversations

Pro Tip: For the most comprehensive discernment, consider taking the assessment for yourself and for your dating partner. Compare the results to gain deeper insights.

What Others Are Saying

Hear from Catholic young adults who have used the AdamEve Matrix to grow in virtue and clarity.

"This assessment gave me clarity I didn't know I needed. I thought I was ready for marriage, but it showed me specific areas where I could grow first. The personalized action steps were incredibly helpful!"

Sarah M.

Age 26 • Austin, TX

"I used this to assess both myself and the woman I've been dating. It sparked the most meaningful conversations we've had about our future together. Highly recommend for any serious couple."

Michael P.

Age 29 • Denver, CO

"As someone discerning marriage, this tool helped me understand what virtues matter most. The radar chart visualization made it easy to see my strengths and weaknesses at a glance."

Emily R.

Age 24 • Charlotte, NC

"The virtue-based framework is what sets this apart. It's not just personality types or love languages—it's about real character development rooted in Catholic teaching."

David L.

Age 31 • Portland, OR

"I took this before entering a serious relationship, and it helped me work on myself first. Now I feel more confident and prepared for when God brings the right person into my life."

Maria G.

Age 27 • Phoenix, AZ

"The growth priorities section was a game-changer. Instead of vague advice, I got specific, actionable steps to become a better future husband. Already seeing improvements!"

James K.

Age 28 • Nashville, TN

Join hundreds of Catholic young adults on their journey toward holy marriage

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about the AdamEve Matrix assessment

The assessment takes approximately 5 minutes to complete. It consists of 8 carefully crafted questions designed to evaluate your marriage readiness across key virtue dimensions.
Yes! The AdamEve Matrix assessment is 100% free. We believe every Catholic young adult should have access to tools that help them grow in virtue and discern their vocation.
Unlike personality tests that focus on preferences and traits, the AdamEve Matrix is rooted in the Four Cardinal Virtues (Prudence, Justice, Fortitude, and Temperance). It evaluates character development and readiness for the vocation of marriage based on Catholic teaching.
Absolutely! The assessment is designed for dual use: you can evaluate yourself OR someone you're in a relationship with. Many couples find it helpful to take it for each other and compare results.
You'll receive: (1) A detailed score out of 3000 points, (2) A readiness category (Beginning the Journey, Developing Readiness, Good Foundation, or Marriage Ready), (3) An 8-axis radar chart showing your virtue strengths, (4) Your top 3 growth priorities with specific action steps, and (5) Option to email results to yourself.
Yes! The assessment includes gender-specific questions that reflect the unique virtues and roles that men and women bring to marriage, while maintaining the same scoring framework.
Yes. We take privacy seriously. Your assessment data is only used to generate your results. If you choose to receive results via email, we'll only use your email for that purpose. See our Privacy Policy for full details.
The assessment is designed to be a tool for growth, not judgment. Lower scores simply indicate areas where you have opportunity to develop virtue. The personalized growth priorities give you specific steps to improve!
While this assessment is rooted in Catholic teaching on virtue and marriage, it is not an official Church document. We recommend using it alongside spiritual direction, confession, and prayer as you discern your vocation.
Yes! We encourage you to retake the assessment every few months to track your growth and progress in virtue development.

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"For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."

— Ephesians 5:31